I Get By With A Little Help From My Friends

by Betsy Ashton

Betsy Ashton, born in Washington, DC, was raised in Southern California where she ran wild with coyotes in the hills above Malibu. She protested the war in Vietnam, burned her bra for feminism, and is a steadfast Independent. She is a writer, a thinker, the mother of three grown stepchildren, companion and friend. She mentors writers and writes and publishes fiction. Her first mystery, Mad Max Unintended Consequences, was published in February 2013. The second in the series, Uncharted Territory, A Mad Max Mystery, came out in April 2015. In her spare time, she is the president of the state-wide Virginia Writers Club. She loves riding behind her husband on his motorcycle. You’ll have to decide for yourself if and where she has a tattoo.

February 8, 2019

Hi, all,

I know I went silent for a few weeks. Nothing wrong here at all. More like needing to clear my head and focus on two new books. And now I find myself looking for some advice.

I’m closing in on final edits for the book I’ve been calling “Out of the Desert.” I’m not sure if that’s the best title.

So, what do you think? I have four titles below that people have recommended. Do you like any of them? Please email me at [email protected] with your ideas. You can add your own suggestions.

  1. Out of the Desert
  2. Grains of Sand
  3. Sands of Time
  4. Toad the Dreamer
  5. Other

This is a novel in stories about Toad, his brother Cricket, his best friend Polly, and his cousin Phyl.

Once upon a time a little boy named Toad the Dreamer lived in the Mojave Desert. He dreamed first of being a spaceman. Then, he dreamed about growing up and going to college. Next, he dreamed about having a big family. He dreamed his mother’s dream for him becoming a writer. 

One day, when Todd, the grown-up version of Toad, was closing in on his 50th birthday, he wondered what happened to the little boy who wanted to be a spaceman. Or a writer. Todd’s story, and those of his favorite cousin and best friend, bring him to this turning point.

Will he go back to the desert he left behind and find Toad the Dreamer? Or will he continue as he has, living a good life but not being satisfied with what he’s doing? Will he reconnect with his best friend?

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2 Comments

  1. Rosie Amber

    Toad the dreamer has me asking, who is Toad and what is he dreaming about. 1-3 are a bit generic and bland. But do be careful about the word dream. I’m not sure how much of your story features dreams, but they are a feature that has been overdone. They can lose readers who don’t feel connected to the story.
    I can’t tell if your book ‘s main theme is the childhood or the adult life. What age reading audience are you aiming at? Toad the Dreamer shouts #YA to me, or something very laid back. However, if it is adult fiction / memoir style, from the synopsis I’m afraid there’s not much that grabs me – lots of folks reach a milestone birthday and look back at their life, what is going to make this book stand-out and have readers begging to read it?
    Hope this helps, but do ignore me if I’ve got this all wrong.

    • Betsy Ashton

      I hear you, Rosie. Thanks for your comment.

      Dreams are so passe. Toad’s daydreams set up the rest of the narrative. He begins a young boy with a vivid imagination.

      This isn’t YA, nor is it a memoir. It’s literary fiction, women’s fiction, if you will, which focuses on the lives of a group of friends who grow up, grow apart, and may or may not get together again. I’m not sure how much new ground the story breaks. Perhaps it’s more of a familiar tale told differently. I hope.